Prohibition of Sitting on the Graves

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 347
Prohibition of Sitting on the Graves

1766. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “It is much better for one of you to sit on a live coal, which will burn his clothes and get to his skin than to sit on a grave.
[Muslim].

Abomination of Selecting Friday for Fasting

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 345
Abomination of Selecting Friday for Fasting

1760. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “Do not choose the Friday night among all other nights for standing in (Tahajjud) prayer, and do not choose Friday among all other days for Saum (fasting) except that one you have accustomed to.”
[Muslim].

1761. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) as saying: “None of you should observe fast on Friday except that he should observe fast either one day before it or one day after it.’
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

1762. Muhammad bin `Abbad (May Allah be pleased with him) said: I asked Jabir (May Allah be pleased with him). Did the Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) prohibit fasting on Friday?” He said, “Yes.”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

1763. Juwairiyah bint Al-Harith (May Allah be pleased with her), the Mother of the Believers, said that the Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) visited her on a Friday and she was observing fast. He asked, “Did you observe fast yesterday?” She said, “No.” He asked, “Do you intend to observe fast tomorrow?” She said, “No.” He said, “In that case, give up your fast today.”
[Al-Bukhari].

 

Undesirability of offering optional Prayer after the announcement ofIqamah

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 344
Undesirability of offering optional Prayer after the announcement of Iqamah

1759. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “When the Iqamah is called, no prayer should be performed except the obligatory prayer.”
[Muslim].

Prohibition of passing in front of a Worshipper while he is offeringSalat (Prayer)

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 343
Prohibition of passing in front of a Worshipper while he is offering Salat
(Prayer)

1758. Abul-Juhaim `Abdullah bin Al-Harith (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “If the person who passes in front of a praying person, realizes the enormity of the sinfulness of this act, it will have been better for him to wait forty than to pass in front of him.”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

[The narrator was not sure whether the Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said forty days, months or years.]

Prohibition of facing the Graves during Salat (Prayer)

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 342
Prohibition of facing the Graves during Salat (Prayer)

1757. Abu Marthad Kannaz bin Husain (May Allah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) saying: “Do not offer Salat (prayer) facing the graves and do not sit on them.”
[Muslim].

Prohibition of raising one’s Eyes towards the sky during As-Salat (ThePrayer)

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 340
Prohibition of raising one’s Eyes towards the sky during As-Salat (The Prayer)

1754. Anas bin Malik (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “How is it that some people raise their eyes towards the sky during As-Salat (the prayer)?” He stressed (this point) and added, “People must refrain from raising their eyes towards heaven in Salat (prayer), or else their sights will certainly be snatched away.”
[Al-Bukhari].

Abomination of Joining As-Salat (The Prayer) when the Food is ready orwhen one is in desperate need to answer the call of Nature

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 339
Abomination of Joining As-Salat (The Prayer) when the Food is ready or when one
is in desperate need to answer the call of Nature

1753. `Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) saying, “No Salat (prayer) should be performed when the food has been served, nor should it be performed when a person is in need of relieving himself.”
[Muslim].

Prohibition of Placing the hands on the sides during As-Salat (ThePrayer)

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 338
Prohibition of Placing the hands on the sides during As-Salat (The Prayer)

1752. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: We are prohibited from placing the hand on the side during As-Salat (the prayer).
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Prohibition of raising one’s Head before the Imam

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 337
Prohibition of raising one’s Head before the Imam

1751. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “Does he who raises up his head before the Imam not fear that Allah will make his head that of a donkey or make his appearance similar to that of donkey?
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Prohibition of Observing an Optional Saum (Fast) by a Woman without thePermission of her Husband

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 336
Prohibition of Observing an Optional Saum (Fast) by a Woman without the
Permission of her Husband

1750. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “It is not lawful for a woman to observe an optional Saum (fast) without the permission of her husband when he is at home. Nor should she allow anyone to enter his house without his permission.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Prohibition of Refusal by a Woman when her Husband calls her to his Bed

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 335
Prohibition of Refusal by a Woman when her Husband calls her to his Bed

1749. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “If a man calls his wife to his bed and she refuses, and thus he spends the night angry with her, the angels continue cursing her till the morning.”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Abomination of Holding Conversation after ‘Isha’ (Night) Prayer

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 334
Abomination of Holding Conversation after ‘Isha’ (Night) Prayer

1746. Abu Barzah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) disliked going to bed before the `Isha’ (night) prayer and indulging in conversation after it.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

1747. Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) said: Once, towards the end of his life, the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) concluded the `Isha’ (night) prayer and said, “After one hundred years from tonight none of the people on the surface of the earth will survive.”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

1748. Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) said: Once the Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) delayed the `Isha’ (night) prayer till midnight. He (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) turned to us after the prayer and said, “All the people slept after offering their prayers, but you who waited, will be accounted as if you were engaged in your prayer throughout the period.

[Al-Bukhari].

Abomination of saying: “What Allah Wills and so-and-so Wills”

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 333
Abomination of saying: “What Allah Wills and so-and-so Wills”

1745. Hudhaifah bin Yaman (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “Say not: `What Allah wills and so-and-so wills’, but say: `What Allah wills, and then what so-and-so wills.”’
[Abu Dawud with authentic Isnad].

Prohibition of Describing the Charms of a Woman to a man without a validreason approved by the Shari’ah

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 331
Prohibition of Describing the Charms of a Woman to a man without a valid reason
approved by the Shari’ah

1742. Ibn Mas`ud (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “No woman should touch another woman’s body and then describe the details of her figure to her husband in such a manner as if he was looking at her.”
[Al-Bukhari].

Undesirability of Calling Grapes ‘Al-Karm’

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 330
Undesirability of Calling Grapes ‘Al-Karm’

1740. Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “None of you should use the word Al-Karm for grapes, for Al-Karm is a Muslim (worthy of respect).”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

Another narration is: “Verily, Al-Karm is the heart of a true believer.”

Another narration is: “People have named grapes as Al-Karm; verily, only the heart of a believer is Al-Karm.

1741. Wa’il bin Hujr (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “Do not say Al-Karm when talking about grapes but say Al-`Inab or Al-Habalah.”
[Muslim].

Abomination of Self-Condemnation

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 329
Abomination of Self-Condemnation

1739. `Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her) said: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “None of you should say: `My soul has become evil.’ He should say: `My soul is in bad shape.”’
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Undesirability of Pretentiousness and Exaggeration during Conversation

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 328
Undesirability of Pretentiousness and Exaggeration during Conversation

1736. Ibn Mas`ud (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Prophet (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “Ruined are Al-Mutanatti`un.” He repeated this thrice.
[Muslim].

1737. `Abdullah bin `Amr bin Al-As (May Allah be pleased with them) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “Verily, Allah dislikes an eloquent person who rolls his tongue as a cow rolls its tongue (while eating).”
[Abu Dawud and At-Tirmidhi].

1738. Jabir bin `Abdullah (May Allah be pleased with them) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “The dearest and the closest of you to me on the Day of Resurrection will be those who are the best in behaviour; and the most hateful and the farthest from me on the Day of Resurrection will be the talkative and the most pretentious and the most rhetorical.
[At-Tirmidhi].

Prohibition of Obscenity

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 327
Prohibition of Obscenity

1734. Ibn Mas`ud (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “A true believer does not taunt or curse or abuse or talk indecently.”
[At-Tirmidhi].

1735. Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “Indecency does not leave anything untainted and decency does not leave anything ungraced and embellished.”
[At-Tirmidhi].

Prohibition of Calling a Muslim an Infidel

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 326
Prohibition of Calling a Muslim an Infidel

1732. Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) said, “When a person calls his brother (in Islam) a disbeliever, one of them will certainly deserve the title. If the addressee is so as he has asserted, the disbelief of the man is confirmed, but if it is untrue, then it will revert to him.”
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

1733. Abu Dharr (May Allah be pleased with him) said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) saying, “If somebody accuses another of disbelief or calls him the enemy of Allah, such an accusation will revert to him (the accuser) if the accused is innocent.
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Prohibition of Attributing Rain to the Stars

Imam Al-Nawawi’s Riyad-us-Saliheen
Chapter 325
Prohibition of Attributing Rain to the Stars

1731. Zaid bin Khalid (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (sallallaahu ’alayhi wa sallam) led the Fajr prayer at Al-Hudaibiyyah after a rainfall during the night. At the conclusion of prayer, he turned towards the people and said, “Do you know what your Rubb has said?” They replied: “Allah and His Messenger know better.” Upon this he remarked, “He has said: `Some of My slaves have entered the morning as My believers and some as unbelievers. He who said: We have had a rainfall due to the Grace and Mercy of Allah, believes in Me and disbelieves in the stars; and he who said: We have had a rainfall due to the rising of such and such star, disbelieves in Me and affirms his faith in the stars.”’
[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].